Latest Episodes
Latest Episodes
Stay current with the newest conversations, insights, and unfiltered commentary. Â The links below are in chronological order and tend to build on one another. You may benefit from watching them in order as they apply to you. Click on the episode for a recap.
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PART I: ACADEMIC FOUNDATIONS
🎙️ Episode 1: The Parent’s Role – How to Instill Study Habits that Last
Core Hot Take: Study habits aren’t just about flashcards—they’re about mindset, consistency, and modeling behavior.
Key Lesson: Modeling responsibility (like planning your own deadlines on a shared calendar) is more effective than nagging.
Actionable Step: Replace “did you study?” with “what’s your plan for reviewing today?” to empower ownership.
Digital Inferno: Use Google Calendar or a digital planner to set up a shared schedule, modeling time management. Encourage Active Recall with apps like Quizlet or Anki.
🎙️ Episode 2: Building Responsibility – From Chores to Self-Management
Core Hot Take: Everyday tasks like chores aren't just about getting the house clean; they are the training ground for developing time management, accountability, and true independence.
Key Lesson: Letting a child experience natural consequences (e.g., forgetting lunch and going hungry) teaches more about accountability than reminders.
Actionable Step: Assign age-appropriate chores and let kids experience the natural consequences of forgetfulness or procrastination.
Digital Inferno: Use shared digital task lists like Cozi or Trello boards, assigning chores with clear deadlines to externalize responsibility and enforce self-management.
🎙️ Episode 3: The Ownership Mindset – Helping Your Teen Take Control of Their Future
Core Hot Take: The single biggest game-changer is the shift from 'do it because I said so' to 'I want to do this.' Our job is to coach them toward that internal motivation.
Key Lesson: By taking ownership based on a long-term goal (like being a game designer), a teen finds intrinsic motivation bigger than a passing grade.
Actionable Step: Help teens set SMART Goals (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound) for a project or semester to make ambitions concrete.
Digital Inferno: Use Habit-Tracking Apps like Habitica to gamify the process of working toward SMART Goals. Encourage the teen to create and share their own Personal Development Plan (PDP) with you digitally.
🎙️ Episode 4: The Digital Footprint – Teaching Teens to Navigate Social Media Wisely
Core Hot Take: Every post, like, and comment leaves a permanent trail. We need to teach teens that their digital presence is a powerful tool that can either open doors or close them.
Key Lesson: An old, inappropriate social media post can cost a student a spot in a summer program or college.
Actionable Step: Discuss the 'Grandma Rule': if you wouldn't want your grandma to see it, don't post it. Teach them how to build a positive online presence (e.g., LinkedIn).
Digital Inferno: Ensure your child utilizes LinkedIn or a portfolio site to build a positive online presence to offset any negative history. Use Google Alerts to teach them Online Reputation monitoring.
🎙️ Episode 5: The High School Playbook – A Grade-by-Grade Guide to Success
Core Hot Take: High school isn’t just four years to get through; it’s four distinct stages of growth and preparation. Having a specific focus for each year is the key to reducing stress and maximizing opportunity.
Key Lesson: Starting with a strategic plan in 9th grade (Milestone Mapping) prevents being overwhelmed by Junior Year.
Actionable Step: Freshman focus: building habits; Sophomore focus: GPA; Junior focus: SAT/ACT prep and college list; Senior focus: execution and application.
Digital Inferno: Use the BIGFUTURE PLANNER or a Google Sheet checklist to track deadlines and SAT/ACT dates across the four years. Keep a digital folder of your best work (Early Wins) ready for application essays.
🎙️ Episode 6: High School Classes in Middle School – Getting a Strategic Head Start
Core Hot Take: Allowing a ready student to take high school classes in middle school can be a strategic launchpad for their future, but pushing an unready student can do more harm than good. It's about fit, not force.
Key Lesson: Prioritizing Academic Readiness (maturity and organization) over prestige ensures the student thrives later on.
Actionable Step: Talk to professionals (teachers and counselors) for advice. Think long-term (the entire high school schedule) and monitor stress levels.
Digital Inferno: Use online resources like Khan Academy to objectively test the student’s readiness for High School Credit courses. Utilize a shared digital calendar to map out the potential course load, ensuring the Acceleration plan is sustainable.
PART II: COLLEGE READINESS & TRANSITION
🎙️ Episode 7: Early College & Dual Enrollment – How to Earn College Credits in High School
Core Hot Take: Dual Enrollment is one of the most underutilized strategies for getting a head start, but you have to be smart about it, or you're just wasting time.
Key Lesson: Research is everything; you must ensure the credits will actually transfer to your target college.
Actionable Step: Stick to general education courses (English, history, basic math). Balance rigor with your bandwidth.
Digital Inferno: Use databases like Transferology to verify exactly which college credits your target universities will accept. Keep a Course Planning Spreadsheet that documents course numbers and acceptance policies.
🎙️ Episode 8: The Extracurricular Edge – Why Your Activities Matter to Colleges
Core Hot Take: Your grades and test scores tell colleges how good of a student you are, but your extracurriculars tell them who you are. They are a core part of your story.
Key Lesson: Colleges value deep commitment and impact (Demonstrated Interest) more than a long list of fleeting memberships (depth over breadth).
Actionable Step: Choose 2–3 activities you genuinely enjoy and look for Leadership Opportunities or ways you can make a real impact.
Digital Inferno: Use a digital tracker to log hours, accomplishments, and leadership roles—this is the foundation for your Common App activities list. Use AI tools to help refine your descriptions, focusing on Action Verbs and Impact.
🎙️ Episode 9: Work, Clubs, or Volunteering? – Choosing the Right High School Path
Core Hot Take: There is no single 'best' path through high school. The value comes from the skills you build and what you learn about yourself, not from the activity itself.
Key Lesson: All experiences (a grocery store job, hospital volunteering) build key Transferable Skills that are valuable for your future.
Actionable Step: Reflect on your goals (saving money, exploring interests). Start small. Track what you enjoy and what drains your energy.
Digital Inferno: Use platforms like LinkedIn to research job titles that use the Transferable Skills you are currently building (e.g., customer service). Utilize VolunteerMatch to find opportunities that specifically target skills you want to develop.
🎙️ Episode 10: The High School Balancing Act – Juggling Schol, Work, and Life Without Burnout
Core Hot Take: Burnout doesn't make you a hero; it makes you a breakdown waiting to happen. The ability to balance school, work, and life is a critical skill for success.
Key Lesson: Learning to say 'no' and setting clear boundaries (like scheduling downtime) is crucial for both mental health and improved grades.
Actionable Step: Use Time Blocking to map out your entire week. Identify your 'Non-Negotiables' (sleep, meals, downtime) and put them in the calendar first.
Digital Inferno: Time Blocking is best executed digitally using Google Calendar or Notion, treating every activity (including sleep and rest) as a non-negotiable meeting. Use Prioritization apps to enforce the Eisenhower Matrix.
🎙️Episode 11: The Career Interests Game – A Fun Way to Discover Your Future
Core Hot Take: We need to stop asking teens 'what do you want to be when you grow up?' and instead reframe career exploration as a low-pressure, curiosity-driven game of discovery.
Key Lesson: Taking the ONET Profiler (using the Holland Code system) can open up new career possibilities based on personality traits (e.g., investigative and artistic).
Actionable Step: Take a career interest inventory like the ONET Profiler. Go shadow someone for a day. Create a 'career curiosity board' (like a Pinterest board).
Digital Inferno: Use the ONET Interest Profiler and immediately use LinkedIn's Alumni Tool to find people with those job titles who graduated from your school, connecting the abstract to reality.
🎙️ Episode 12: College Vs. Trade School – The Four-Year Degree Vs. The Hands-On Career
Core Hot Take: The idea that a four-year college degree is the only path to success is outdated and wrong. For many students, trade school is a smarter, faster, and more financially sound choice.
Key Lesson: Whether you choose a Trade School or a Four-Year College, the goal is Alignment. Both paths are valid if they fit the individual's learning style and career goals.
Actionable Step: Research job placement rates and average starting salaries for both paths. Visit both a college campus and a Trade School.
Digital Inferno: Use the government's College Scorecard website to check the ROI (Return on Investment) of specific college degrees versus Trade Schools. Utilize online salary tools to compare earning potential.
🎙️ Episode 13: Applying to College 101 – Breaking Down the Application Process
Core Hot Take: The college application process isn't about being perfect; it's about being prepared and authentic. Your goal isn't to trick a college into accepting you.
Key Lesson: Starting applications early (pacing is everything) leads to a better result and less stress than waiting until the last minute.
Actionable Step: Create a balanced college list (reach, match, and safety). Build a timeline, putting all deadlines (FAFSA, Common App) on a calendar. Provide teachers with a 'brag sheet' for recommendations.
Digital Inferno: Use Google Calendar or Notion to create your full application timeline. Keep all documents (Brag Sheets, transcripts) in a single Cloud Folder (Google Drive/Dropbox) for easy sharing.
🎙️ Episode 14: What You’ll Miss Most After High School – The Post-Graduation Blues Are Real
Core Hot Take: Graduation is exciting, but it's also a form of loss. It is completely normal to feel sad about leaving high school, and we need to give ourselves permission to feel those feelings and find closure.
Key Lesson: Reflecting on the Rite of Passage (like writing a letter to your future self) helps students feel grounded and ready to move forward.
Actionable Step: Write a letter to your future self (using FutureMe.org). Plan a small, intentional goodbye ritual with close friends.
Digital Inferno: Use FutureMe.org to schedule a letter reflecting on this Rite of Passage to be sent to your college self, formalizing emotional Closure. Use a digital photo album or Instagram archive to create a permanent 'Senior Year Snapshot.'
🎙️ Episode 15: Transitioning to College – How to Start Your Next Chapter with Confidence
Core Hot Take: The key to a successful transition is having an intentional plan for your first month on campus.
Key Lesson: Creating a College Launch Plan (mapping class locations, joining campus groups, setting club goals) and practicing Self-Advocacy transforms surviving into thriving.
Actionable Step: Create a first-month checklist and attend the Orientation events. Introduce yourself to your professors after the first class.
Digital Inferno: Use Google Calendar or Notion to map out your entire College Launch Plan. Utilize campus-specific apps (like Discord) before day one to find Social Anchors and practice Self-Advocacy.
PART III: COLLEGE SURVIVAL SKILLS
🎙️ Episode 16: Homesickness & Finding Your People
Core Hot Take: Homesickness is normal, and finding your people is an active process, not an accident.
Key Lesson: Forced engagement (like attending the involvement fair) creates Social Anchors and a reason to engage with the new life.
Actionable Step: Schedule calls home, but don't let them replace engaging with your new environment. Find a "Third Place" that isn't your dorm or a classroom.
Digital Inferno: Use apps like ZeeMee or MeetYourClass to find classmates. Use apps like Bumble BFF (friends-only mode) or Meetup to connect through shared hobbies.
🎙️ Episode 17: Managing Freedom and Independence
Core Hot Take: Without the structure of home, you have to learn to be your own boss and create your own systems, or that freedom will absolutely derail you.
Key Lesson: Creating a "Default Schedule" with non-negotiable alarms and routines helps reduce Decision Fatigue and chaos.
Actionable Step: Create a weekly default schedule. Learn to cook 3 to 5 simple, healthy meals. Use the "one-in, one-out" rule for social plans.
Digital Inferno: Treat your Google Calendar as your true boss, scheduling everything from study blocks to sleep to enforce your Default Schedule. Use Notion or Trello to centralize goals and tasks.
🎙️ Episode 18: The Roommate Handbook
Core Hot Take: Living with a stranger is a crash course in communication, and the key to success is setting clear expectations from day one.
Key Lesson: The Roommate Agreement and Direct Communication (using "I" statements) are essential for maintaining harmony.
Actionable Step: Complete that roommate agreement together within the first week. Address small issues before they become big ones.
Digital Inferno: Use a digital chore chart app (like OurHome or ChoreStars) to keep tasks visible and assign accountability without nagging. Use shared calendars for guest or travel schedules.
🎙️ Episode 19: Academic Integrity in College
Core Hot Take: In college, academic dishonesty can get you expelled, and 'I didn't know' is not an excuse.
Key Lesson: Plagiarism isn't just intentional copying; "accidental" plagiarism happens from sloppy note-taking. The risk is never worth the potential reward.
Actionable Step: When taking notes, clearly distinguish between your own ideas and information you get from sources. When in doubt, cite it.
Digital Inferno: Use citation management software like Zotero or Mendeley to automatically track and format your sources, drastically reducing accidental plagiarism. Run your paper through a Plagiarism Checker before submission.
🎙️ Episode 20: Navigating Relationships in College – Balancing Love, Friendship, and Your Goals
Core Hot Take: If a relationship—romantic or platonic—costs you your peace, your purpose, or your GPA, it's too expensive.
Key Lesson: Setting emotional boundaries (e.g., around study time) and maintaining Goal Alignment is crucial for growth.
Actionable Step: Be honest about your priorities from the beginning. Schedule "relationship time" and "me time" in your calendar. Re-evaluate friendships that feel consistently one-sided or draining.
Digital Inferno: Google Calendar can make your study time and "relationship time" non-negotiable by blocking them off and sharing them with friends/partners. Couple communication apps like Paired can help build healthy habits.
🎙️ Episode 21: Mental Health in College – Self-Care, Burnout, and the Myth of Having It All Together
Core Hot Take: The biggest lie on campus is the myth that everyone else has it all figured out.
Key Lesson: Rest is not a reward; it's a requirement for high performance. Setting boundaries and prioritizing sleep prevents Burnout.
Actionable Step: Build a weekly self-care routine that includes sleep, movement, and downtime. Use your campus mental health resources (counseling is for everyone).
Digital Inferno: Scheduling apps can automate your "downtime" and "sleep" just like an appointment. Use mindfulness apps not just for meditation, but for features that track mood or guide progressive muscle relaxation.
🎙️ Episode 22: Life Admin for Young Adults – How to Book Appointments and Keep It Together
Core Hot Take: 'Adulting' isn’t just about paying bills; the secret to not being overwhelmed is to stop relying on memory and start using systems.
Key Lesson: Implementing a weekly 'Admin Hour' and using a digital 'life binder' for important documents is a system more reliable than memory.
Actionable Step: Set recurring calendar reminders for every appointment, bill, and deadline. Create a digital 'life binder' using Google Drive or Dropbox.
Digital Inferno: Utilize Cloud Storage like Google Drive for instant access to necessary documents (FAFSA info, ID, insurance). Use Reminder/Task apps to trigger specific actions ("Call Doctor") instead of vague notes.
🎙️ Episode 23: Campus Culture & Identity – Finding Belonging and Building Your People
Core Hot Take: Belonging isn't about fitting in by shrinking your identity; it's about finding the people and places that allow you to show up as your full, authentic self.
Key Lesson: Seeking out Affinity Groups (cultural, religious, or identity-based organizations) is a powerful way to build community and grow confidence.
Actionable Step: Visit your campus cultural centers, identity-based organizations, or student unions. Reflect on your own values and actively seek out communities that align with them.
Digital Inferno: Utilize apps like CampusGroups or GroupMe to find student organizations' meeting times and social chats instantly. LinkedIn is essential for finding alumni who share your identity or interests and reaching out for mentorship.
🎙️ Episode 24: Time Management – How to Juggle Classes, Clubs, Work, and Still Sleep
Core Hot Take: The secret to success isn't 'finding' more time; it's 'making' time for what matters by managing it with intention.
Key Lesson: Aligning your hardest tasks with your 'Peak Hours' (when you have the most energy) and using Time Blocking increases efficiency and reduces stress.
Actionable Step: Use a digital calendar to map out all commitments. Use the Eisenhower Matrix (though not explicitly in the steps, it is a key concept) to prioritize tasks. Break down big projects into smaller, time-specific chunks.
Digital Inferno: Use Time-Tracking Apps to audit where your hours actually go. Use task managers like Todoist linked to your calendar to automatically assign an "urgent/important" status, effectively automating the Eisenhower Matrix.Â